Film writer and editor Apurva Asrani, who has been a strong voice in propagating LGBTQ rights, has announced that he is separating from his partner of 14 years. The National Award winner, and writer and editor of films like Shahid and Aligarh, posted a long note on Instagram, urging everyone to respect their privacy and also said that there is always hope for anyone seeking love, commitment and secure home. Apurva wrote, “I inform you with a heavy heart that Siddhant and I have separated. I know we have been seen as role models by many in the LGBTQ community, and this is sure to evoke some disappointments, but I must tell you that every day of these 14 years has been important and valuable and that we have amicably parted ways.
Same-sex couples in India have no references and no role models to seek inspiration from, and we have made mistakes in the way that we have charted our unique path. But we are also the first generation in India to live our love so visibly and courageously, so I write this with no regrets.” Apurva requested everyone to respect the privacy of the couple’s personal life as it is a very difficult time for them. Apurva ended his message with hope and said, “Every one of us seeking love, commitment and a secure home.” Around last year Apurva had bought a home with Siddhant in Goa and had spoken about the humiliation and practical difficulties that a same-sex couple faces when they intend to live in a rented apartment in Mumbai. Apurva has edited films like Satya and Shahid and the series Made in Heaven. In 2001, Apurva won the National Film Award for Best Editing for Snip!, a bilingual comedy directed by Sunhil Sippy.